āWhatever possession we gainĀ byĀ our sword cannotĀ beĀ sureĀ orĀ lasting,Ā butĀ theĀ love gainedĀ byĀ kindnessĀ andĀ moderationĀ isĀ certainĀ andĀ durable.ā ~Alexander the Great I remember when I was younger, my relatives on my motherās side would visit our house almost weeklyānot to check…